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<p class="MsoNormal">I have moved to a new flat in Kampala. A new flat and new
neighborhood on the opposite side of town. I have to say it is a nice switch,
though I do miss Kasubi, “the village”, from time to time. Some would say I’ve “upgraded”,
though looking at the outside of our complex sometimes makes me feel like I’m
in an episode of The Wire, or living in some of the Soviet housing imposed by Khrushchev
(though these flats are shorter). I’m still waiting for Bubbles to walk up to
me one of these days and say something to me while twitching. Hasn’t happened
yet. <span style="">&#160;</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Bugolobi is a “nicer” area of town. I have to say I am still
overly excited about the fact that there’s grass here (no grass in Kasubi)
which translates into less dust, the roads are better, it is more conveniently
located for me which means I have to take transport a bit less BUT the boda
drivers here are stubborn and often overcharge quite a bit (though I’m breaking
some of them in), and there are a ton of Maribu storks, my favorite bird
recently re-named as the trashodactyl because they eat trash and kind of look
like a pterodactyl. They follow closely behind me every time I take our garbage
out to the dump and one of these days there may be a scuffle.<span style="">&#160; </span>I have yet to determine who I think might
win. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">There is a nice restaurant/bar/art gallery place within
walking distance of my new home which I am kind of obsessed with. My wireless
modem works like a dream (ok, pages load most of the time) from there, the food
is quite good and the staff is nice. There is one waiter who thinks I’m weird
because I don’t put sugar in my coffee (he asked if I was sick, as in diabetic)
and laughs every time he hears me spelling something in Luganda or the name of
a Ugandan town even though I’m generally right (this happens more than you
would think…me spelling these things out for people). </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The flat itself is nice. It’s newly redone on the inside,
has two toilet rooms, a bathroom with a bath tub which is just brilliant (I
bought bubble bath before buying a broom), a laundry room (also brilliant), a
nice kitchen with tons of cabinet space, a dining room (next big purchase…..table
and chairs), a HUGE living room with one wall that is all window that opens up
into an enclosed porch of sorts, and three bedrooms.<span style="">&#160;&#160; </span>OH!<span style="">&#160;
</span>How could I forget?!<span style="">&#160; </span>The bedrooms
have closets!<span style="">&#160; </span>This is the first place I
have lived in Uganda that has closets and I’m possibly waaaaay too happy about this
but it makes my mild OCD a bit easier to deal with. Downside….the thing that
disturbs my OCD, is the walls are made of cement. I can’t get anything into
them. I have masonry nails and everything and it just dulls them down and
sometimes leave a big hunk in the wall. I tried to bring my drill with masonry
bits back from the US but it wouldn’t fit in my suitcase and I had already
sacrificed my dancing hip-hop frog that sings 50 Cent’s “In Da Club” and dances
on two trips back to UG so this time it was him or the drill and I chose the
dancing frog with lots of bling. I have to say, the frog makes me happy on a
daily basis. But power tools bring a lot of joy to my life as well.<span style="">&#160; </span>Hmmmm.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Dad, any suggestions? <span style="">&#160;</span>But all in
all it is pretty fantastic. I will get my Russian Orthodox icons and Molly
Murphy paintings and pen and inks up in no time. No time at all.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Once everything has its place and my walls are covered with beautiful
batiks, prints, paintings, icons and Obama kangas I will take some photos and
post them. Promise.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I have to say, staying in Kasubi was good for sure. I felt
like I was actually in Uganda. Now I’m half in half out…experiencing mild
culture shock. It’s good that I now know I could never live in one of the “fancy”
neighborhoods like Kololo (where a lot of ambassadors live) because I will
likely never be able to afford that kind of bougie lifestyle and the village
seemed to have helped me not desire it.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Good, good.</p>

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        <title>&quot;Mzungu! Why you no love me no more?!&quot; and other randomness...</title>   
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<p class="MsoNormal">I have decided to try to start writing more. I find it
therapeutic. Not that I <em style="">need</em> a dose
of therapy (it is arguable) but most people do and don’t realize or admit it.
I’m an admitter. I admit that I have my prejudices, I admit that I can be quite
paradoxical at times, I admit that it is absolutely difficult at times to
practice what you preach, etc. So here I am. At this moment (these feelings
could change in the next moment), I feel I should write more and be content if
my writings do not reach short story (let’s be honest, I’m truly thinking
novel) length.<span style="">&#160; </span>This is OK. I am telling
myself that this is OK.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">It is also OK if what I write means nothing. Writing a long
or short entry about absolutely nothing, or about myriad random things is
absolutely OK. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Here we go. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I live in Uganda. Pedestrians do not have the right of way
or anything remotely resembling the right of way in this country. Generally
speaking, in my mind, I am always in the right and therefore have the right of
way. Tonight while walking home from a neighborhood restaurant/bar (I may have
had some wine…)I decided that my one and only response to those cars which were
coming painfully close to <em style="">my</em> space on
the road in this <em style="">seemingly </em>christian
country would be to yell, “I will haunt you!” whilst shaking my finger at them,
or simply pointing like my father used to do when he caught me driving under
age. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Another random thing striking me today (I am realizing it
has been long since I commented publicly on the amusing, and sometimes
seriously annoying, idiosyncrasies of this country, or the people within.<span style="">&#160; </span>If I had 500 shillings for every time I heard
something such as, “mzungu, why you no love me no more?!” I would be less broke
than I am right now. AND I have decided to, along with my friend, most of which
I have not informed of this project yet, compile a record of text messages and
random facebook and myspace messages from random and sometimes not-so-random
people here because they are awesome. An example from this guy Franklyn who
“luvs” this mzungu….. “How r u? Am kul. Cald u fone it was off maybe u were in
states! Whats nu? Am dyin 2cu again!”.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Though my favorite will always be…. “mzungu, why you no love me no
more”. That may have to be the title of the book that eventually comes out of
my compilation. Actually, I think it has just been decided that yes, yes that
will be the title. In fact, it may work its way into the title of this
particular blog posting. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">OK, that’s enough of the random Kate thoughts for one day. </p>

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        <title>My International Women&#39;s Day Salute!</title>   
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="q"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">Hello everyone and Happy International Women&#39;s Day! A day that is not on
most calendars unless you&#39;ve written it in yourself, and a day that is largely
forgotten, overlooked, not celebrated. Well, I&#39;m celebrating from the purple
folding chair which sits in front of my red desk in Bugolobi, my new home in
Kampala, Uganda. I&#39;m feeling quite liberated sitting atop my purple, plastic
throne. In fact, as I was scrolling through my massive list of email contacts,
I kept coming across names of Women who absolutely amaze me, which to me is the
point of International Women&#39;s Day. It is a time to think about my life as a
Woman, the life of the Women in my life, those I admire across the globe
fighting for their rights in their context, those from the past who sacrificed
everything, even their lives, to get me as a Woman where I am today.</span></span><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">
</p>
<span class="q">My mother is a feminist. Always has been. She&#39;s an inspiration to
me, a take-no-shit (pardon my French) kind of woman.&#160; A woman who does for
herself. I feel I have taken after her in that kind of way, though it&#39;s been
much easier for me. Being a Woman and wanting to move from Kansas to Uganda
would have been unheard of when she was my age. In fact, I try to remind myself
as often as possible of her story of dreaming of being a marine biologist but
her father would not let her go to college in an area where that was possible
so she went to Stephen&#39;s College in nearby Columbia, Missouri, a private
all-Women&#39;s college at that time fighting to break the image of being a
&quot;finishing school&quot;. This is where I spent my disappointment of a
freshman year of college. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">While I was home for the holidays my mom told me a new
story.&#160; One I hadn&#39;t heard before. In high school while meeting with the
guidance counselor to determine what she would study in her bachelor’s degree,
my mother was informed that biology was not a &quot;girls&quot; field. Biology,
mathematics, all that stuff that really requires the brain (ha!) was for men.
My mother should study sociology. So that&#39;s what she did at Stephen&#39;s College,
and after college she taught sociology at a small town school in Kansas.
Thankfully my mother had enough and, at least as I imagine, <em>informed</em> my
dad that she would go to the University of Kansas and get her Masters in Biology
and that she did. She also stopped cooking his breakfast every morning. And my
dad accepted that and supported her. My father is a feminist too. You would
have to be to stay married to my mother for what 40 years?&#160; Whoa. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">So today things are better for Women in America, and really for
Women around the world. Revolutions take different amounts of time, different
shapes, but they happen. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">I consider myself to be very lucky. I am surrounded by, in
American and in Uganda, such strong Women. It amazes me when I really sit back
and think about it. I&#39;m surrounded by Women who respect themselves, stand up
for themselves, have expectations, dreams, wants that they make happen, etc.
It&#39;s a great thing to be surrounded by. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">I watched the film &quot;Milk&quot; last night. Amazing film.
Everyone involved in the film did an exquisite job and it told a story that
absolutely needed to be told. It also made me wake up a little bit. While the
story of Harvey Milk is directly about gay rights in America, it is broadly
about human rights in America. It is a beautifully tragic story, and it made me
think about human rights across the globe. In America, I feel that most groups
have become quite complacent. They&#39;ve come &quot;this far&quot; and &quot;this
far&quot; is comfortable enough so we&#39;ll just stay here. I&#39;m Black and can walk
down the street (usually) without being harassed so we&#39;re good; I&#39;m gay and
they can&#39;t put me in prison for that so I&#39;m just going to live my life; I&#39;m a
Woman and can work outside of the house so I&#39;m not going to rock the boat.
Never mind the fact that 97% of those in prison (and in the projects which are
essentially prison) are Black and Latino, never mind the fact that you can work
for a company for 50-years and when you die your 401k can&#39;t go to your partner
and never mind the fact that you get paid a fraction of the salary of a man for
doing the same job. Bottom line, in my opinion of course, is that across the
board all human rights boats in America and across the globe need to be rocked.
People are fighting harder in developing countries than they do in the West.
The West has become lazy, satisfied <em>enough</em>. I don&#39;t like that. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">In Uganda, International Women&#39;s Day is a public holiday where
banks, state offices, etc. are closed (this year they lucked out and it&#39;s on a
Sunday so businesses are closed anyway). It&#39;s not in the U.S. Maybe that could
be a starting point. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">You get the gist. I don&#39;t need to ramble on and on anymore. </span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">Today, please take time and appreciate yourself and the Women in
your life. Yes, this should be done every day but you know, sometimes people
just need a day to remind them.</span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">Cheers-</span><br />
<span class="q">Kate</span><br />
<br />
<span class="q">&quot;Every time we liberate a woman, we liberate a man.&quot;</span><br />
<span class="q">-Margaret Mead</span></span></p>

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        <title>&quot;You Are Lost!&quot;: My 2009 Return to Gulu</title>   
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">3
February-8 February 2009</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">I feel that my
last several blogs have started with, “It has been long since I’ve written…” or
something to that effect.<span style="">&#160; </span>Perhaps I
should just start saying, “Hello!<span style="">&#160; </span>I am
still alive and well in Uganda!” or something like that?<span style="">&#160; </span>Hmmmmm.<span style="">&#160;&#160;
</span>So yes, it has been long and I am still alive and well in Uganda, though
I took a five week hiatus in the U.S., Kansas and New York more specifically. Why
have I been so quiet you ask? Well, I’ve been busy and then unmotivated,
followed by busy and followed again by unmotivated and well you get the point,
no? To catch you all up to speed more or less I have been plugging away at
Awava and the Awava Foundation, applying for grants, recruiting volunteers,
setting up various avenues for sales, designing product, applying for grants,
etc., working here and there on my dissertation (but more often laying awake
all night thinking about how I need to work on it), drinking (like I said, I
was in Kansas and New York for five weeks), readjusting to life in the U.S.
just in time to come back to Uganda and have to readjust to life here, helping
my friend Sarah who I forced back to Uganda with me adjust to life in Uganda,
and now we are here!<span style="">&#160; </span>Today.<span style="">&#160; </span>I can start with this week I think,
unfortunately leaving out small, amusing details of the weeks and months before
that while sitting and thinking without any way to record them, have forgotten.
Sorry.</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">On Sunday I
traveled to Gulu for the first time since October. It had been far too long. My
intention was to make it here before going back to the US for the holidays but
that didn’t happen.<span style="">&#160; </span>At the last minute,
I had to call the tailors and the women making the recycled paper bead
necklaces and ask if they could send them on the bus to Kampala. So Sunday was
my “homecoming” in a way. Lucy pretended to cane me for “escaping” to the U.S.
but stopped when I told her I had brought her some Nutella for our chapatti,
Nutella, banana happiness, a concoction I invented shortly after my move to
Uganda (this culinary delight is perhaps remembered by those on my Fair Trade
trip as chapatti, Blue Band, raw sugar and banana happiness, but now has what I
refer to as the capital city upgrade).</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">But let me
rewind…..Sunday, Ryan, Sarah and I reached the bus park in Kampala around 11am
to head to Gulu.<span style="">&#160; </span>For Sarah and Ryan this
was their first time, and what a first time it was. Those of you who have been
reading my blog for some time must remember some of my stories of previous
travels to Gulu from being grabbed and yelled at by every other person in the
bus park, many pulling you trying to get you to fill a seat on their bus while
others try to guess where you are going, always guessing places like Fort
Portal, Queen Elizabeth National Park, Mbarara and other touristy places but
never Gulu; others mob you trying to “help” you to carry your things only to
ask for money once you reach the bus and what you give is never enough…..Well,
Sarah and Ryan got to experience this multiplied by 100. When I travel to Gulu
I often only carry as many things as I can take myself and I take a boda to the
bus park. This time, since I was with extra hands, I took lots and lots and
lots of things: wax print fabrics for Lucy and for Awava, foam stuffing for
products, elastic, solid liner fabrics, etc. We had tons of bulky, heavy
things. I was willing to pay for the carrying of the anvil-laden suitcase, but
the rest was up to us!<span style="">&#160; </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">We reach the bus
to Gulu and the <em style="">muyaye </em>(cheats) tried
to charge me 20,000UGX to put my luggage in the boot!<span style="">&#160; </span>I talked them down to 5K which was more than
enough and boarded the bus. Sarah and I lucked out because the bus was so full
that we got to sit in the conductors’ seats giving us loads of extra leg room.
This did, however, leave us vulnerable to more stares. Every time I woke up from
a doze one of the conductors was staring at me, sometimes my face, sometimes my
chest…..</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">On the way, the
bus stopped several times, as always, to buy street food in various trading
centers. I bought Sarah some gonga (grilled banana, not marijuana) to try. Yum!</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">We reached Gulu
around 5pm and were filthy and hungry. We reached Bora Bora, my favorite place
to stay in Gulu, and I was informed that Francis, the manager for years, had
left! I was sooooo sad.<span style="">&#160; </span>I had tried to
call his phone a few times during the bus ride but it was switched off.<span style="">&#160; </span>We washed up a bit and headed to Bomah, one
of the local hotel/restaurants with “Western” cuisine. I’ve made quite a few
Ugandan friends in Gulu over the last year and a half and hadn’t seen one of my
favorites, Jacob, in a few months. Jacob is the manager of Bomah and is
constantly smiling and giggling.<span style="">&#160; </span>We
received the biggest welcome from him when he saw me walk in!<span style="">&#160; </span>It was truly good to be back. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">We were all
exhausted from the journey and had full bellies so called it an early night,
for we had to be up by 7am the next day to conquer the mountain of work we were
to accomplish in such a short period of time. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Monday we hit
the ground running. We had a nice planning breakfast at Kope Café and then went
to the market to hang out with the tailors, pick up finished product and place
the new order! After lunch a laid back lunch of maloquang, simsim paste and
cassava, we headed to Unyama IDP camp to conduct livelihoods assessments with
the tailors which I am studying for my dissertation and who Lucy also
employs.<span style="">&#160; </span>The interviews didn’t take
nearly as long to conduct as I expected and were actually pretty fun seeing as
we were all laughing at my attempts at Acholi (I am getting <em style="">much</em> better).</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">We headed back
into town where Sarah and I met with Richard, the man who organized the paper
bead women’s group, Konye Keni which in Acholi means “you help yourself through
yourself”. We were going to be doing baseline interviews with this group the
next day and wanted to go over the interview guides with Richard so we could
plan the best method for translation, etc. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Following our
meeting, Sarah and I returned to Bora Bora, showered and went for a beer with
Ryan at Havana Pub to celebrate Sarah’s Half Birthday (she’s such a Leo).<span style="">&#160; </span>While their beers were ice cold, mine was hot
and considering that I really don’t like beer much in the first place, I drank
about 4 sips and then just sat there.<span style="">&#160;
</span>All I really wanted to do was organize stuff for the next day and pass
out!<span style="">&#160; </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">My days in Gulu
are typically exhausting because 1) it’s quite hot there especially during the
dry season which is now; and 2) I spend my days running around doing a billion
things trying to maximize on the short time periods while I’m there.<span style="">&#160; </span>So yes, computer work and bed were calling
me!<span style="">&#160; </span></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Tuesday Ryan was
traveling back to Kampala so we loaded him down with product to mule back the
night before. Sarah and I slept in until 8am (yay!) and had rolex and coffee
and an orange for breakfast at Bora Boar. For Christmas my sister’s family gave
me quite possibly the coolest and most useful thing in the world, a travel
French press! It’s kind of amazing. It looks like a travel mug but one of the
tops has a coffee press built in! I am a bit coffee obsessed as any of you who
know me personally know, and outside of Kampala you only get instant coffee
which I think is an abomination of the coffee bean. In fact, I’m partly
convinced that it doesn’t contain a single trace of anything remotely
resembling any part of a coffee tree.<span style="">&#160;
</span>But I digress…so I got this fabulous gift that I had yet to use, I took
my own ground coffee so all I had to ask for was hot water!<span style="">&#160; </span>Brilliant!<span style="">&#160;
</span>Megan, you guys saved my life.</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">After breakfast,
I showed Sarah how to deposit money for the tailors, we went and visited the
tailors and then headed out to Bobi IDP camp to conduct the rest of my
livelihood assessments with the tailors there! This process also went by
quickly and before I knew it we were in the back of a very full farm truck on
our way back to Gulu town. Sun burnt, filthy and exhausted, Sarah and I
returned to Bora Bora just in time for our 2 o’clock meeting with the ladies of
Konye Keni!</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Despite the
language barrier, we had tons of fun with these ladies who also enjoyed
laughing at me and my Acholi speaking. We took photos, they tried to teach
Sarah how to roll the paper beads (she and I are at similar skill levels) and
we learned about the Women’s lives. We also bought all of the necklaces they
had and the following day met with Florence, the unofficial leader of the
group, to place a new order and go over design. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">While I had been
sad that Francis, the old Bora Bora manager was gone, the new management was
Ethiopian and it turns out no offers Ethiopian food! Ethiopian is one of my
favorites so we asked the woman if we could have whatever they had for
dinner.<span style="">&#160; </span>We were served one of my
favorite dishes, Kir Kwot with injira!<span style="">&#160;
</span>It was delicious and only 5K! Excellent. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Wednesday, our
last full day in Gulu, was much more laid back. Sarah and I slept in again, had
our meeting with Florence, stopped by and greeted the tailors and then headed
to Bomah to do lots of computer work. We went back to the market around 4pm for
what I like to call, “chapatti, Nutella, banana happiness”, a delicious
concoction which I invented when I first moved here which is a chapatti with a
layer of Nutella on top, a banana in the middle and then rolled like a
burrito.<span style="">&#160; </span>BEST THING EVER! And the
tailors, Lucy in particular, are <em style="">obsessed</em>
with it! </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Sarah and I
headed back to Bora Bora and sundown excited about our Ethiopian dinner that
was just a few hours ahead.<span style="">&#160; </span>I showered
and put lotion on my sun burn and then lay on the bed thinking, decompressing
and looking forward to the food we were soon to be served.</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Just like the
night before, our meal was delicious. I cannot recall the name of the dish but
had had it many times before and it was another one of my favorites!<span style="">&#160; </span>This time it was only 3K! Seriously, you
cannot beat that. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Sarah and I
decided to go have one beer (this time mine was cold and thus more drinkable)
at Havana Pub and then pack up and rest early for we were leaving for the bus
at 6am! We sat at Havana Pub reflecting on the past few days, Sarah’s opinions
of Gulu and the Women, etc. All in all things were good! We accomplished <em style="">a lot</em> and made space for a lot more
future growth. Fantastic!</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">We arrived at
the Post Bus at 6:30am. The bus was to depart at 7am which means we left at
7:45, but not before the nun at the front prayed that should we crash that our
bus would be covered by the blood of Jesus Christ. Sarah looked at me wide-eyed
and said, “is this really happening” and I replied “yes, this is normal”. The
bus departed and we were headed for Kampala. </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">I was passed out
in true Kate form (i.e. mouth half open and slamming my head against the window
with every bump) for the majority of the ride home. I would periodically wake
up when the bus stopped to see if there were any samosas or chapatti available.
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &quot;Georgia&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">We made it safe
and sound to Kampala, me with only a minor concussion. We exited the bus,
grabbed our bags from the book and walked tiredly and grungily down Kampala
road in an effort to find lunch.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>For more (pseudo)frequently updated information, please join my &quot;business&quot; blog at http://awava.blogspot.com!

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<p class="MsoNormal">I have not written in quite some time because I have simply
been too busy.<span style="">&#160; </span>So much AMAZING stuff has
been happening and it just kills me that I haven’t been updating my
readers!<span style="">&#160; </span>This blog entry is going to be
more of a small (or maybe not so small) novel.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I am sorry, but I promise to make it as interesting as my left brain
will allow!<span style="">&#160; </span>It is the left brain, isn’t
it?</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The last time I wrote I was in Gulu working diligently to
set up as much as possible for the One Mango Tree grant project.<span style="">&#160; </span>I believe the last blog entry said something
like, “tomorrow I am finally going to Lucy’s home”.<span style="">&#160; </span>I am so disappointed in myself for not
promptly writing about that experience, for it was one of the <em style="">best</em> days of my life.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Shaina and I met Lucy at her market stall around 1:30 in the
afternoon and grabbed bodas out to Lucy’s home in St. Mauritz’s Parish (about
ten minutes outside of Gulu Town).<span style="">&#160; </span>We
reached Lucy’s home (Lucy insisting that she pay for all of our bodas) and
there were all of these kids around! <span style="">&#160;</span>We
walked toward her compound consisting of five traditional round mud huts with
thatched straw roofs; one for Lucy, one for her father, one for her mother and
the kitchen and two for all of the kids.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The dirt walkways between the houses were meticulously swept
with small grass patches kept equally as neat.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Lucy invited us into her home where she had chairs and two small tables
set up.<span style="">&#160; </span>She introduced Shaina and I to
her father, Saverio, a tall, thin Acholi man who spoke little English and used
crutches to support himself as he walked.<span style="">&#160;
</span>We also sat with her orphaned nephew, Walter (who <em style="">loves</em> physics), and her brother, Marco Polo (seriously, that is his
name), who is a very energetic school teacher.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Lucy left us to these three generations of men and disappeared with a
mischievous smile upon her face. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">A while later, Lucy reappeared with a huge tray full of
food: beef stew, boiled and spiced cabbage, posho, matooke and a bunch of fresh
bananas from a tree in her yard.<span style="">&#160; </span>Until a
few days ago I had thought that Lucy prepared this delicious meal, but she
corrected me.<span style="">&#160; </span>Apparently three of the
boys prepare the meals daily, which pleasantly defies the cultural norms
(worldwide, I think).<span style="">&#160; </span>Lucy is the one
who comes home from work every night and says, “where’s my dinner”?!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After our delicious meal, Lucy and Marco Polo (still love
it) showed us around the property.<span style="">&#160; </span>We
saw her garden where she grows maize, potatoes and greens, her mango and banana
trees, the grave of her brother who was killed by the Lord’s Resistance Army on
the compound, where the children had been playing with chalk on the cement
tomb; and all of the houses.<span style="">&#160; </span>We also met
the rest of this huge family, including her mother, Poline, who had clearly
suffered a stroke or two and was suffering from dementia.<span style="">&#160; </span>Her mother, we were told, spent her days
sitting outside her hut on a mat,<span style="">&#160; </span>kept
company by an adorable cat which clearly only trusted her (or it was simply
afraid of mzungus).</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Shaina and I had everyone gather together (around Poline)
for some family portraits (which I made prints of for the family in
Kampala).<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After a wonderful visit, Shaina, Lucy and I headed back to
the market in Gulu Town (this time I insisted on paying for the bodas).</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The next morning I packed my things and boarded the bus to
Kampala, missing Gulu more and more with each passing kilometer. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I got to Kampala in the afternoon on Sunday July 13 and
immediately started scheduling meetings and setting plans for getting a million
things done before returning to Gulu on the 27<sup>th</sup>.<span style="">&#160; </span>I finished my master’s dissertation proposal,
defended it and submitted the final copy; spent time with Roxanne, Katie, Ted
and Lisa (all friends visiting separately); worked a waitressing shift at La
Fontaine; visited a great friend (family really) at Luzira prison (loooooong
story); bought almost 200 yards of wax print fabric, 10 bolts of liner fabric,
12 sewing machines with tables, 22 pair of scissors, 22 packets of machine
needles and hand sewing needles, 22 rules, 22 measuring tapes, notebooks, pens,
etc.; sold One Mango Tree products to US Embassy employees (and friends); met
with a potential wholesale person; had my cats spayed and vaccinated and
de-wormed; made a million excel sheets and visited the Ngenda International
Academy of Art and Design (NIAAD) site to get updated photos for the
website.<span style="">&#160; </span>OH!<span style="">&#160; </span>I also picked up Paul, an American who has
lived in Japan for 12 years, at the airport.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Paul found out about One Mango Tree through my friend Emily who has
lived in Japan for the past two years.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Paul was intrigued and was traveling so decided to come to Uganda and
check out the project first hand!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Paul has experienced things which many Americans never do,
even many who come to Uganda.<span style="">&#160; </span>My friend
Meredith has been working for this seriously poor school for kids from one of <em style="">the worst</em> slums in Kampala, Kivulu, and
Paul visited the school and the slum.<span style="">&#160;
</span>That experience has had a profound effect on him.<span style="">&#160; </span>He has also traveled to Gulu with me, gone
into the camps and is now in Arua (a town bordering Sudan and D.R. Congo)
visiting a refugee camp.<span style="">&#160; </span>He is NEVER
going to be the same after all of this.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After doing all of these things in Kampala, it was time to
head to Gulu with all of the wonderful things I had purchased!<span style="">&#160; </span>Now, I have never taken a private vehicle to
Gulu before because it is so expensive, but after doing a comprehensive cost
assessment, it turned out that buying the materials in Kampala and hiring a van
to drive them and me (and Paul) to Gulu would be significantly less expensive
than buying everything in Gulu.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Everything in Gulu comes from Kampala but the prices are higher due to
transport costs.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So how do I even begin to talk about my trip to Gulu.<span style="">&#160; </span>Paul, the driver, picked me up, with Paul
(the American from Japan, we’ll call him Paul #2) at 5am.<span style="">&#160; </span>I had slept for two hours the night before
because I had SO many things to do.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Obviously I remembered to bring my pillow along.<span style="">&#160; </span>I managed to stay awake for the first hour of
the trip, mainly because Paul #2 kept talking to me.<span style="">&#160; </span>He realized I was about to die and let me go
to sleep.<span style="">&#160; </span>So I slept and slept,
periodically waking up for large speed bumps and the like.<span style="">&#160; </span>At one point I woke up because the van had
stopped.<span style="">&#160; </span>At first I figured we were
stopping to pee or get food and started to lay my head back down but then I
smelled burning.<span style="">&#160; </span>I opened my groggy eyes
and saw smoke.<span style="">&#160; </span>“OK”, I thought, “this is
not good”.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was reassured that it was a
simple problem, the battery was dry and needed distilled water so Paul #1
jumped in a matatu to the next trading center to get distilled water. He
returned, poured water in and nothing.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Then Paul #1 and the mechanic he brought back with him raised the
driver’s and passenger’s seats (the engine was under) and more smoke came out.<span style="">&#160; </span>Ah, the engine overheated.<span style="">&#160; </span>This was all stuff I found out much later
because any time I asked what was happening they ignored me.<span style="">&#160; </span>Obviously it is a waste of time to tell a
Women, especially a white one, what is wrong with the car. So…I sat at the end
of the van, bored, and Paul #2 approached me with a high-performance
Frisbee.<span style="">&#160; </span>Excellent.<span style="">&#160; </span>We threw the Frisbee around for a while,
catching the attention of all of the local passersby.<span style="">&#160; </span>Paul would throw the Frisbee to them, and
they would throw it back, sometimes successfully, sometimes not so much. <span style="">&#160;</span>It was good!<span style="">&#160;
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">All anyone would tell me about the van was that it was
overheated and just needed to cool.<span style="">&#160; </span>Two
hours later several men (we had gathered quite a crowd) started pushing the van
back and then into a nearby driveway.<span style="">&#160;
</span>“OK”, I thought again, “this is not good”.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I kept trying to ask questions and kept getting ignored, so
finally I made my way in and looked at the engine which they were taking apart
(this is obviously more than overheating) and said, “this does not look
good.<span style="">&#160; </span>It looks like the head gasket is
cracked”.<span style="">&#160; </span>Everyone stopped what they
were doing and just looked at me like, “how in the hell does she know
that?!”<span style="">&#160; </span>This is where I started gaining
mad respect in the village just before Karuma Falls.<span style="">&#160; </span>Paul #2 had disappeared, not telling me where
he was going.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was trying to organize a
second ride for Paul #2 and I to Gulu town.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Paul #1 had assured me that the van would be fixed by morning, he could
drive the materials into Gulu Town, help us take them to the camps and then go
back to Kampala, SO I wanted to find a car.<span style="">&#160;
</span>We are working on the car, and find that there is one 30 minutes away
that can take us to town when Paul #2 comes back with about 20 children and 4
men in tow.<span style="">&#160; </span>It seems Paul #2 went to
find the Local Council (LC) chairman to get us a truck to move the machines and
take us into town and to hire a guard to watch the van.<span style="">&#160; </span>This resulted in a mess.<span style="">&#160; </span>Paul #2 was trying to help, but was
unfamiliar with the culture <em style="">and</em> this
was all my responsibility and he had gone over my head.<span style="">&#160; </span>I hadn’t eaten all day, was sleep deprived
and hot, so obviously I was less than pleased.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Because no one would talk to me about anything the head gasket got blown
(at first we were just overheating but the “mechanic” poured water in the
engine and <em style="">then</em> started the engine
which even I know is WRONG and will blow the gasket), then we end up with this
huge truck to take Paul #2 and I into town which is much more expensive than a
car when all we needed was a car (during my price negotiations I said, “why should
I pay so much more because this truck uses more fuel when a) I never asked for
the truck, I asked for a car, and b) you’re sitting here arguing over price
because fuel is expensive and you’re engine is running?!).<span style="">&#160; </span>I got them to lower the price by 40,000
shillings.<span style="">&#160; </span>The only reason I agreed to
this was because it was late and there weren’t any buses that seemed to be
running by and I had to get out of there.<span style="">&#160;
</span>We had been there for about 5 hours and I hadn’t eaten all day.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Paul #2 and I finally make it to Gulu Town, I shower and we
meet for dinner at Maq Foods.<span style="">&#160; </span>I get a
call from Paul #1 (who had assured me that the van would be fixed by morning)
saying that the part they needed was only in Kampala so it would take time and
that he had a truck (the same one who had brought us to Gulu Town a few hours
before) to load the machines and drive in to Gulu Town.<span style="">&#160; </span>UGH!<span style="">&#160;
</span>So now I got to pay this truck TWICE when I could have paid once and had
this nightmare over.<span style="">&#160; </span>So, I waited and
waited and it took them forever to get to Bora Bora (the place I am
staying).<span style="">&#160; </span>They finally arrived at 11pm,
we unloaded the merchandise into a spare room, I paid the men <em style="">again</em> and went to bed, finally.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Monday morning I woke up, went to the market to visit all of
the tailors, and then went to Bomah to use their electricity to work on my
computer and wait for Julie, the Woman who applied for the grant for us, to
arrive.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Julie arrived around 2pm and I told her about the awful day
before.<span style="">&#160; </span>We got her checked into her home
stay and then we met up and went to greet Lucy and the tailors!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Tuesday was the first really, super productive day, and
there has hardly been any downtime since.<span style="">&#160;
</span>While I don’t want to bombard you all with too many details, things have
been absolutely crazy.<span style="">&#160; </span>We’ve been
writing contracts (or MOUs), trying to negotiate and secure a training space in
Unyama camp, running around picking up random things and trying to put together
some sort of schedule which most of the time seems impossible.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Unyama Camp has been a two-fold problem.<span style="">&#160; </span>We have had three spaces for training fall
through, and finally found the perfect space but the landlord was saying that
the space was actually 4 un-partitioned rooms which is crazy because there is
only one access door.<span style="">&#160; </span>The space is
smaller than the one we have in Bobi Camp and twice as much.<span style="">&#160; </span>Stella, the project director from GWED-G,
talked the landlord in to letting us have the room for one month at half price
which will give us time to find another space but still get the trainings
started.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The second problem in Unyama is the ages of the
participants.<span style="">&#160; </span>Now, I told GWED-G that
the Women needed to be between the ages of 18 and 40.<span style="">&#160; </span>The age requirements were based on Lucy’s
decision.<span style="">&#160; </span>Tailoring takes a toll on the
body, requiring good eyesight, a strong back, etc.<span style="">&#160; </span>AND the average life expectancy in Uganda is
40.<span style="">&#160; </span>Our goal for this training is to
have as many of the Women as possible excel in tailoring so that Lucy can hire
them on as One Mango Tree tailors at the end of the three months.<span style="">&#160; </span>The training process will be brutal, for the
first month these Women will be training three days a week for four hours and
the second and third months they will be training five days a week for four
hours each day.<span style="">&#160; </span>There is a strict
attendance policy, and it is a lot of hard work.<span style="">&#160; </span>We do not want to waste our grant money and
the time of people who may not make it. We also want to ensure that those who
do “pass” training (passing will be determined by Lucy) will be with us for a
long time so that a) money and time is not wasted and b) this project has a
long-lasting impact. When we met with these Women, all of them insisted that
they were capable and that they didn’t have daughters at home who could come
for the training instead. We suggested the daughters because these Women have
been selected as the “most vulnerable” in the camps, yet with their daughters
coming, the family as a whole will still benefit economically.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I must say this has been one of the most emotionally
draining things I’ve ever had to do.<span style="">&#160; </span>ALL
of these Women are so excited to have this opportunity, and truly they are all
wonderful, I’m just worried about the long-term.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">On Monday the 4<sup>th</sup> we started moving the sewing
machines and tables into Bobi Camp, taking George, Lucy’s machine technician,
along for the ride to set up and service all of the machines.<span style="">&#160; </span>George is absolutely wonderful.<span style="">&#160; </span>When we went to find him in the market I
realized that he was the tailor who made me some men’s ties to take home for
Christmas!<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">George, Julie, Lucy, Stella and I headed out to Bobi where
we started unpacking and assembling the machine tables.<span style="">&#160; </span>Several of the table stands (made of some
sort of metal ceramic stuff) were broken as we took them out of the boxes.<span style="">&#160; </span>I had a bad feeling we would encounter
similar problems with the tables in Unyama camp.<span style="">&#160; </span>We separated the broken tables and re-packed
them while George assembled the two that were fine.<span style="">&#160; </span>George said we could have the tables welded
in Gulu Town.<span style="">&#160; </span>Ugh!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Tuesday we headed to Unyama, along with George again, and
low and behold, we had more broken tables which we also took back into town to
have welded.<span style="">&#160; </span>We have had so many
problems with these machines it’s insane.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I had purchased two large sewing machines for Lucy with the intension of
switching them out for two of her small machines (the large ones sew
faster).<span style="">&#160; </span>When I took Lucy to see the
machines I had gotten she was very excited, until we got to the wheel for the
table (these are all foot treadle machines).<span style="">&#160;
</span>The machine people had given us the small wheel for the large machines
which will work, but doesn’t make the sewing any faster which was the point in
the first place.<span style="">&#160; </span>So…I called Kampala and
they said to bring in the parts.<span style="">&#160; </span>So, I
had to meet the Post Office Bus at 6:45am and load these things on and send
Julie’s sister who was in Kampala to pick up the tables and go to Old Kampala
to “exchange” them. First the guy wanted 300,000 extra (Ugandan shillings, not
dollars), and with the help of Paul (the driver whose van broke down) we got
them down to 200,000.<span style="">&#160; </span>More grant money
down the drain. <span style="">&#160;</span>Annie then arrives in
Gulu with the machines, George puts the tables together, and they gave us one
large wheel and one medium.<span style="">&#160; </span>Lucy said it
was fine, but I think she said that because she saw that my head was about to
explode.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">To further my sewing machine headache, it turns out that the
10 small Singer machines we bought are all cheap Chinese knockoffs.<span style="">&#160; </span>The cord that hooks the wheel to the treadle
keeps breaking on lots of them and there are just general problems across the
board.<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m going to Old Kampala on the
11<sup>th</sup> to have a discussion with these guys.<span style="">&#160; </span>I hope they’re prepared for the wrath of
Kate.<span style="">&#160; </span>It will likely not be pretty. <span style="">&#160;</span>Part of my anger is at myself.<span style="">&#160; </span>I really should have just had Lucy come to
Kampala and go with me to pick out machines.<span style="">&#160;
</span>But instead I’m angry with the sales people and the Chinese.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">On a lighter note, there were so many things that have happened
in the past couple weeks that were AMAZING!<span style="">&#160;
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">On Monday—4 August we bought all of the existing tailors
bicycles thanks to Clif’s birthday fund raiser in the States!<span style="">&#160; </span>It was amazing!<span style="">&#160; </span>Actually, on Sunday we bought Francis’ bike
because he only works on the weekends and goes to school during the week.<span style="">&#160; </span>So, at the end of his workday on Sunday, I
told him to go and find the bike he wanted and come back and tell me how much
it was.<span style="">&#160; </span>I gave him the money and told
him to come back with a receipt and a bike so I could see it!<span style="">&#160; </span>He was so happy I almost cried!!!<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Monday, however, was even more exciting.<span style="">&#160; </span>The ladies had already found the bikes they
wanted, got a price and so we put down a deposit and waited all day for the
bikes to be serviced. <span style="">&#160;</span>Around 5pm the
ladies went to pay the remainder of the bike costs and walked them across town
to their Catholic Church to have the bikes blessed.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was in a meeting with GWED-G so missed most
of the blessing, but arrived just at the end.<span style="">&#160;
</span>It was soooooooo great!<span style="">&#160; </span>All the
bikes are the same style.<span style="">&#160; </span>They are all
silver (except for Lucy’s which is PINK!!), they all have baskets, a bell and a
headlamp which is powered by pedaling, and they say “smart lady” on them!<span style="">&#160; </span>I asked them all to meet me at Bora Bora (the
place I am staying) and that I would be there soon.<span style="">&#160; </span>I hopped on a boda, went across town to Maq
Foods and picked up a cake I had ordered.<span style="">&#160;
</span>The cake was beautiful!<span style="">&#160; </span>It had
been iced in pink and white icing and said “Thank you with love OMT” and had a
bicycle drawn on it!!<span style="">&#160; </span>I took it over to
Bora and we had cake and juice in celebration of our bike purchase!<span style="">&#160; </span>Julie, Annie and I watched all the ladies
literally ride their bikes off into the sunset!<span style="">&#160;
</span>What a perfect day.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Another exciting thing we have done is install some much
needed shelving in Lucy’s market stall.<span style="">&#160;
</span>The stall is too small and has just been a mess, mostly due to all the
OMT materials they are housing.<span style="">&#160; </span>Lucy
hired one of the orphans she cares for who is a carpenter, Sam, and his friend
to build the shelves, compliments of OMT (since 90% of the stuff cluttering her
stall is ours) and these shelves have TOTALLY transformed the space.<span style="">&#160; </span>Once the shelves were complete we had an
organization party!<span style="">&#160; </span>So much fun!<span style="">&#160; </span>I can’t wait to get before and after photos
posted (the internet here is too slow)!!!<span style="">&#160;
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I left Gulu on Wednesday (the 6<sup>th</sup>) to head back
to Kampala for some meetings, etc.<span style="">&#160; </span>Julie
is still in Gulu taking care of things, and the frustrations continue.<span style="">&#160; </span>Apparently the landlord for the space in
Unyama has rescinded his offer (we had talked him into letting us keep the room
for 3 months at the reduced rate) and we have to be out immediately.<span style="">&#160; </span>Julie and Stella are working on finding a new
space.<span style="">&#160; </span>The problem with the ages of the
participants continues to be a problem.<span style="">&#160;
</span>George, the machine technician, actually pulled Julie and Lucy aside and
raised his concern about the Women’s ages as well.<span style="">&#160; </span>One of the participants in Unyama is his
sister and he said he didn’t think she could handle the training.<span style="">&#160; </span>This is huge.<span style="">&#160;
</span>We have some very big decisions to make if some of these Women don’t
come forward with their daughters. <span style="">&#160;</span>It is
so upsetting to me because I almost cried after George had put the first table
and machine together at Unyama because the Women were beyond excited, all
taking turns pedaling the treadle.<span style="">&#160; </span>They
were jumping and hollering and giving high-fives.<span style="">&#160; </span>But it just doesn’t make sense to keep them
in the program when there are others who this could actually have a positive
long-term effect on.<span style="">&#160; </span>This breaks my
heart.<span style="">&#160; </span>We will see how things turn out
over the next week.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So back in Kampala I’ve been trying to get my head around
things.<span style="">&#160; </span>I had a meeting with USADF on
Friday morning to look into getting a grant for Lucy to build a Women’s center
which would have space for training and tailoring, a possible guest house,
etc.<span style="">&#160; </span>The meeting was good, though we’ll
have to go about our application a bit differently than expected.<span style="">&#160; </span>Essentially, Lucy will need to partner with
GWED-G if this is to work because the business or NGO has to have been in existence
for at least two to three years (registered) and have meticulous accounting
records, etc.<span style="">&#160; </span>They also don’t typically
give grants to individual people.<span style="">&#160; </span>So I
will be working on approaching GWED-G with this idea when I return to Gulu next
week.<span style="">&#160; </span>I think it is totally possible
because a few months ago I was talking with the director of GWED-G, Pamela, and
they have a piece of land which they want to build a Women’s center on, they
just don’t have the funds to build.<span style="">&#160; </span>We
may have to re-organize plans on this a bit to fit the Ugandan side of OMT into
the picture, but I am optimistic.<span style="">&#160; </span>If we
got this grant it would be unbelievable.<span style="">&#160;
</span>The people at USADF sounded optimistic, IF we can get GWED-G on
board.<span style="">&#160; </span>The grants are up to $250,000USD
and we may potentially have some support from The Ohio State’s engineering
department to make the facility a green facility which would be absolutely
wonderful.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So I took long in finishing this update, and I’m sorry, but
you were spared about ten more pages of great detail, so you should be
happy!<span style="">&#160; </span>This update has only taken 6
Microsoft Word pages!!<span style="">&#160; </span>Yay!</p>

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        <title>First Year in Uganda Down...</title>   
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        <p>Hey everyone!</p><p>Today is officially my 1 year anniversary with Uganda (well, living<br />here). &#160;It&#39;s actually just past my 2 year anniversary with falling in<br />
love with this country. &#160;Can you believe it?! &#160;I can&#39;t.</p><p>I celebrated my 1 year anniversary by first going to the post office<br />where I received some great stuff from a few of you (thank you soooooo<br />much!!! &#160;I&#39;m having guacamole and tortilla chips for dinner, and then<br />
breakfast, then dinner, then...). &#160;Then I decided to have what I<br />called &quot;Happy Westernization Day&quot;, to pay homage to my 1st and true<br />home. &#160;I went to Garden City Mall, had a BLT on a bagel at New York<br />Kitchen and then went and had my hair cut and colored and got a<br />
pedicure. &#160;These are things I always do myself, but after 10 rough<br />days in Gulu (longest blog entry EVER coming soon), I felt I deserved<br />it. &#160;Haircut....not so great (Nicolette I miss you like whoa), dye job<br />awesome, thought I had to bring my own hair dye (I love Uganda) and<br />
the pedicure was out of this world!!! &#160;The guy kept cracking up and<br />scooting his chair back because my feet are so ticklish I couldn&#39;t<br />stand it and he was worried about getting kicked in the face<br />(Adrienne...remember my first pedicure ever when I almost kicked the<br />
Chinese woman in New York City?).</p><p>On my way home from town, I was on the back of the boda thinking over<br />the past year.</p><p>This past year has been the most challenging and most fulfilling year<br />of my life (which, by the way, in 10 days will be 29 years of<br />
life--holy crap!). &#160;I have done things I had only dreamed of doing.<br />I&#39;ve had some major let downs, moments where I&#39;ve never been so<br />depressed before, but I&#39;ve also experienced some of the happiest<br />moments of my life. &#160;Truly.
</p><p>People say things like, &quot;Kate, you&#39;re doing such wonderful stuff for<br />people. &#160;You&#39;re helping out so much&quot;. &#160;It is hard for me to except<br />that sort of praise because honestly, I think I&#39;m getting the most out<br />
of the things I&#39;ve been doing. &#160;My world has absolutely been rocked in<br />the most amazing way. &#160;The past 10 days in Gulu, I cried 3 times, all<br />of which were out of an insane amount of happiness. &#160;I am so turning<br />
into my mother. I have come to terms with this and have decided that<br />this is OK because my mother is an amazing lady.</p><p>This is also a tough day because I am celebrating my 1 year<br />anniversary, but also saying goodbye to my dear friend Meredith.<br />
Meredith has been here since January 25th. &#160;She was on my GYPA trip<br />(my second trip to Uganda--January 2007), and we&#39;ve been living<br />together off and on since then. I am devastated to see her go.</p><p>So...in the last year I have said, not goodbye but until later, to<br />
some very important people in my life (hardest thing to do ever), been<br />forced to learn a whole new level of patience, helped to start and run<br />One Mango Tree, finished lectures at Makerere University and been<br />placed at he top of my class (see patience levels), learned more about<br />
this culture than I ever thought possible and am just starting to<br />realize, had my entire outlook on almost everything altered, saved 5<br />cats (I only have 3 in my home), etc. &#160;I&#39;m amazed and so happy!</p><p>I have also watched a lot of people I&#39;ve grown to love leave. &#160;The<br />
problem with being here for so long is that most others are not<br />(non-Ugandans of course). &#160;I am so tired of saying goodbye to people.</p><p>So a new chapter is beginning in what I will start calling season 3 of<br />my Uganda saga. &#160;I will soon be welcoming a new roommate, continuing<br />
my work with One Mango Tree and writing my dissertation.</p><p>I have officially started the countdown, and will be seeing many of<br />you December 5th! &#160;Have some hugs ready because I need them. &#160;That&#39;s<br />what I miss the most. Hugs.
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    <entry>
        <title>Happiness</title>   
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<p class="MsoNormal">It has occurred to me that complete happiness, for me, seems
to be found in Gulu.<span style="">&#160; </span>A few months ago I
was interviewing for a one year fellowship which would have required me moving
to Gulu and quite frankly, I did not want to do it.<span style="">&#160; </span>If I was asked to move to Gulu today, I think
I would.<span style="">&#160; </span>I don’t know where the switch
came, or what happened exactly, but I feel so happy here.<span style="">&#160; </span>I have a feeling of purpose, and being here
has made me fall in love with Uganda all over again.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was desperately needing that.<span style="">&#160; </span>In a couple of weeks I will have been living
here for one year, and my next trip home is so far in the distance.<span style="">&#160; </span>Life in Kampala was making me grow complacent
and being here has been a breath of fresh air.<span style="">&#160;
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Today was quite successful.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I met with Lucy this morning and we walked to the bank to withdraw money
and we talked about this new project on the way.<span style="">&#160; </span>What I love about Lucy is that she is not afraid
to ask for what she needs.<span style="">&#160; </span>It was nice
walking and chatting with her, and showing her how to use the ATM.<span style="">&#160; </span>I could tell that she felt embarrassed that
she couldn’t remember how to withdraw money from the machine, so I joked with
her by telling her that my mom still didn’t know how to use the ATM and she had
had a card for many years.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">We returned to the market and then I came back to the hotel
to do some work on my computer before Lucy and I were to meet with GWED-G at
two.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I returned to the market around 1:30 to meet Lucy and talk
with the tailors (Kevin and Prisca were the only two there) for a bit.<span style="">&#160; </span>This American woman came by and had ordered
some pants to be made and was trying them on and I saw that she was carrying a
bag that looked suspiciously like one of One Mango Tree’s “weekender”
bags.<span style="">&#160; </span>I asked her if the ladies had made
it and she said yes and that she had a bunch of the other products too!<span style="">&#160; </span>I told her about our projects and gave her my
card!<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m so, so happy that the tailors
have been selling the designs to people here!<span style="">&#160;
</span>It’s so wonderful!<span style="">&#160; </span>Eventually I
envision them having space to have a little store area where they can have some
pre-made bags to sell to passersby.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Lucy and I headed through the bumpy market walkways, Lucy
greeting almost everyone we passed (she knows everyone!), we reached the road
and were shortly at GWED-G’s door.<span style="">&#160; </span>Peter
and Stella were there to meet us and we had a very, very productive
meeting!<span style="">&#160; </span>We were able to secure a
building in each of the camps in which we will be working, set up a rough
schedule for trainings, establish who Lucy’s assistant will be and so, so many
other things.<span style="">&#160; </span>The meeting lasted a
little over two hours and I was so happy to get so much accomplished!<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After the meeting I stopped by the trouser tailor to pick up
my patched jeans and headed back to Lucy’s stall.<span style="">&#160; </span>By this time, Sara and Monica (two of the
other tailors) were back and we all sat around discussing the traditional dress
they are going to make for me and eating pineapple, mango and fried
cassava.<span style="">&#160; </span>Wonderful.<span style="">&#160; </span>They are still working on my Lwo and every
time I pronounce a word for the first time the all laugh at me.<span style="">&#160; </span>I love it!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I returned, yet again, to Hotel Kakanyero to work some more,
and send Halle and Julie my exciting news.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I have also found myself working on the Obama campaign, both stateside
and possibly now in Uganda as well, and managed to squeeze a little time in for
that. It’s going to be great! You’ll all have to stay posted to find out
details, for it’s far too early to let you all in on our plans just yet. Just
keep the phrase “DiscObama” on your tongues for a bit.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">While sending out emails and checking my flooded inbox
(which I love, so please don’t stop) I got a reminder from my friend Jill that
our 10 year high school reunion is in a week (why are the last ten years such a
blur….oh wait) and she wants me to email her a video diary about what I’ve been
up to to show at the reunion.<span style="">&#160; </span>I decided
that I would ask Shaina for help on this and was fine until she started saying
things like, “ten year reunion?!<span style="">&#160;
</span>What?!<span style="">&#160; </span>That’s like when people
come with their spouses and children and talk about their jobs!”<span style="">&#160; </span>Great.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I should tell you all now that Shaina is twenty and I absolutely love
her.<span style="">&#160; </span>She cracks me up all day every day
and I really don’t want her to leave in a couple of weeks.<span style="">&#160; </span>I also have to get to Birmingham, Alabama as
soon as possible to meet her parents and her grandma because they all sound too
good to be true.<span style="">&#160; </span>I mean, clearly they
ain’t got nothin’ on my family, but they still sound pretty great.<span style="">&#160; </span>She tells me family stories daily and has me
rolling on the ground with laughter.<span style="">&#160; </span>She
also has friends who went to her boarding school, compliments of Oprah, so I’m
thinking this could be my in.<span style="">&#160; </span>If I met
Oprah….oh man.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">This evening Shaina (Sheuster Sheely—I kid you not, that is
her name) and I decided to try out Kope Café, a relatively new café here which
is yet another business which has sprouted up to ease the anxiety of the mono
community.<span style="">&#160; </span>The café is affiliated with
the organization, Invisible Children, and all the proceeds go to the HEELS
program which gets various art programs going for youth in the north.<span style="">&#160; </span>The food was quite good but the service was
atrocious.<span style="">&#160; </span>It took us an hour and a half
to get our food, after asking about it twice.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Several people who came in after us got their food before us, and then
we asked for napkins and never got them. <span style="">&#160;&#160;</span>They were actually closing while we were
eating.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">During dinner I met this Norwegian man who is a professor at
some school in Maryland and does conflict studies.<span style="">&#160; </span>He was <em style="">incredibly
</em>full of himself and kept talking about how he was in Rwanda when that
exploded and in Sudan when that exploded and in Uganda when that exploded and
in Kosovo when that exploded and on and on and on and I wanted to say, “maybe
if you would stay out of these countries they could experience some peace”.<span style="">&#160; </span>I didn’t.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I humored him and gave him the ooooo’s and ahhhhh’s that he was looking
for.<span style="">&#160; </span>Shaina and I decided that he hangs
out at Kope Café to try and impress all the high school kids who come here to
volunteer for Invisible Children for three weeks over break and since I had
lived here for a year, he knew he wouldn’t impress me as much as he wanted so
moved inside to join another group.<span style="">&#160; </span>I
know I sound like a snob, but I’m just not as easily impressed anymore.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">While walking back from Kope Café I spotted a new
supermarket and got super excited.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Really, the only thing deterring me from wanting to move to Gulu was
that you cannot find plain yogurt here.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Well kids, now you can!<span style="">&#160; </span>This
supermarket opened three months ago, so since the last time I was here, and the
Indian man behind the counter was laughing at my excitement over yogurt, Ceres
sparkling apple juice and Colgate toothpaste (don’t worry Halle and Colin…the
Tom’s of Maine hippie toothpaste has been finished for some time now).<span style="">&#160; </span>Shaina and I bought Ceres, tea masala, chilli
cheese Pringles and digestive crackers and now we are back at Hotel Kakanyero
enjoying our purchases.<span style="">&#160; </span>I think that
waiting for so long for our food has made us perpetually hungry.<span style="">&#160; </span>Today was the first day I was able to really
eat because of my good friend Mr. Giardia, and it was glorious.<span style="">&#160; </span>Lucy was actually force feeding me pineapples
because she said I had lost too much weight.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Hmmmm…when is the last time someone said that to me?<span style="">&#160; </span>I think perhaps about ten years ago?<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Tomorrow is going to be so great.<span style="">&#160; </span>I don’t have any meetings but need to spend
much of my morning really working on my research proposal and then at 3pm,
Shaina and I are going to Lucy’s home!<span style="">&#160; </span>I
cannot wait!<span style="">&#160; </span>I have been trying to do
this since October of last year and my visits here are always so rushed and busy,
so finally I get to go to her home!<span style="">&#160; </span>I am
so pumped!<span style="">&#160; </span>I will also get to count
products and pay Lucy for some things I’m taking back to Kampala with me on
Sunday.<span style="">&#160; </span>Everything is looking so, so
amazing I’m super excited!<span style="">&#160; </span>I have to
say, it’s always hard for me to send our products off to the US because I want
to keep one of every style in every pattern!<span style="">&#160;
</span>So for those of you who haven’t checked out the website for a while, I
strongly suggest that you do because we have new fabrics and new products and
it’s WONDERFUL!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Alright, that is enough for tonight.<span style="">&#160; </span>More tomorrow from the northern part.</p>

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        <title>This is Bat Country</title>   
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<p class="MsoNormal">**Quickly I want to thank some of you for your witty
responses to my last entry.<span style="">&#160; </span>Yes, you are
right…it is god that I’m not working in southern Uganda because you’re right, I
probably would have written something like: “more later from the southern part”
and that would have been weird.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Today has been a very eventful and exciting day for me in
Gulu!<span style="">&#160; </span>I don’t even know where to
begin.<span style="">&#160; </span>I am here to help kick off the
launching of a new One Mango Tree project with the money awarded to us through
Davis Projects for Peace.<span style="">&#160; </span>Up to this point
there has been a lot of discussion in person and via email between me, Halle,
Julie and Gulu Women’s Economic Development and Globalization (GWED-G, the
indigenous organization which we’re working alongside with this project) but
firm steps have not yet been taken.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Essentially, we will be working with ten women from Unyama IDP camp and
ten women from Bobi IDP camp, having Lucy train them in the tailoring of One
Mango Tree products, and then taking them on as regular One Mango Tree tailors
for business has steadily been increasing (Stateside and in Uganda) and we need
more tailors!<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Today, after a shower and breakfast I headed into the Owino
Market (the central market here in Gulu town where Lucy’s stall is) and greeted
the ladies.<span style="">&#160; </span>There were so many wonderful
smiles and hugs!<span style="">&#160; </span>I sat on one of the
extra stools and talked with the tailors as they continued cutting and sewing
our beautiful bags.<span style="">&#160; </span>I had some other
business to take care of, and Lucy was not yet there, so I took the opportunity
to run off for about thirty minutes.<span style="">&#160; </span>I
headed through the crowded, bumpy market to find my favorite trouser tailors (I
call them trousers now because the first time I asked to have some made I said,
“can you make me some pants” and they all laughed, because here, just as in the
UK, pants are underwear).<span style="">&#160; </span>They saw me
coming and welcomed me with about as much enthusiasm as the One Mango Tree
tailors!<span style="">&#160; </span>I love Gulu.<span style="">&#160; </span>So I had a bag full of projects for them from
patching jeans to “reducing” the size of trousers they had made me in the past,
and I went ahead and ordered two new pairs of trousers.<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m so excited!<span style="">&#160; </span>Soon I will have trousers in every fabric
they offer.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After fabrics were chosen and measurements were taken I said
“Afoyo matek” (thank you very much in Lwo) and was off, detouring through the
food section of the market, toward the GWED-G offices to greet Peter, Stella
and Francis to set up a meeting to discuss what needs to be done for the
project.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I had a pretty successful meeting with GWED-G and
straightened out a lot of uncertainties we all had.<span style="">&#160; </span>Tomorrow Lucy and I are going in together to
meet with GWED-G so we can figure out her exact needs and an ideal schedule for
her involving the trainings, who she plans to use as her assistant, etc.<span style="">&#160; </span>Most of the daily logistics will depend on
what Lucy needs to pull these off since she will be training everyone.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After our meeting with GWED-G, Shaina and I went and bought
some juices and sodas and took them back to the Lucy’s stall and I introduced
Shaina to all the tailors and we sat and chatted for a while.<span style="">&#160; </span>All the tailors are helping me to learn Lwo
so that I can honor my name, Achen (which is not only German but also Acholi
for the second born twin).<span style="">&#160; </span>They are also
going to make me an Acholi dress, I just have to pick my fabrics!<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m so excited!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Shaina had an evening meeting to get to so we came back to
Hotel Kakanyero, I showered and started working on as many computer things as
possible before my battery died on me.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Until a few hours ago, Gulu had been in a blackout for almost 24 hours
so I had been seeking out all the businesses with generators.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I met Shaina at Bomah, another typical mono (Lwo for white)
restaurant in Gulu, for dinner, but went early to steal their petrol-generated
power and to see my friend Jacob who works there.<span style="">&#160; </span>Jacob is one of my favorite people to see
here in Gulu. He’s actually very similar to my favorite Jacob in Kampala for
they both giggle the entire time they are talking to me.<span style="">&#160; </span>I love it!<span style="">&#160;
</span>These are two people I cannot be sad or angry around.<span style="">&#160; </span>I think we have some cosmic connection, for
had I been a boy, my name too would be Jacob.<span style="">&#160;
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Sitting at Bomah, I was trying to get work done but instead
ended up in gmail chats with four different people.<span style="">&#160; </span>Turns out, even from Uganda, thanks to
Adrienne, I will be helping on Barak Obama’s campaign!<span style="">&#160; </span>We are organizing a fabulous fund raising
event in good old Lawrence, Kansas (and possibly beyond).<span style="">&#160; </span>WARNING: Lawrencians…I may be hitting you up
soon for your various talents!<span style="">&#160; </span>Stay
tuned for more information on this front.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I’m just excited to say on my resume that I organized a fund raiser for
Obama from Uganda.<span style="">&#160; </span>How cool will that
be?!<span style="">&#160; </span>Oh, well that and I support the
guy.<span style="">&#160; </span>If for no other reason, I really
like saying “Obamalamadingdong!”<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Shaina showed up to Bomah so I tucked the computer away so
we could successfully ignore each other because we were both fixated on the
huge television broadcasting CNN.<span style="">&#160; </span>I
never, ever watch TV here, so really, I think it could have been any program,
but before moving here, if my television wasn’t on one of the Law and Order
(original, Criminal Intent or Special Victims Unit) channels, it was typically
on CNN.<span style="">&#160; </span>I have gone far too long without
seeing Andersen Cooper’s beautiful Vanderbuiltian face.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The news disturbed me: shoot outs outside the US Consulate
in Istanbul, Iran missile testing, Zimbabwe insanity.<span style="">&#160; </span>I couldn’t take it.<span style="">&#160; </span>I honestly haven’t been reading the papers
lately or checking news online because I am seriously so fed up with the state
of the world.<span style="">&#160; </span>I know it is important to
be informed, and I’ve always been a news junkie, but honestly, ignorance is
bliss and I would prefer to focus on the hardships I see around me because
there are often uplifting stories around and within them, but those don’t make
news headlines.<span style="">&#160; </span>It’s just war and Kristi
Brinkley’s divorce and custody battle.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Oh yes, and Jessie Jackson saying he wants to cut Obama’s nuts off.<span style="">&#160; </span>That was lovely.<span style="">&#160; </span>Al Sharpton hasn’t even gone that far!<span style="">&#160; </span>Yet.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So once CNN started re-rolling the stories as they do, Shaina
and I started talking.<span style="">&#160; </span>She found out all
kinds of interesting information today from this German photojournalist named
Diamond.<span style="">&#160; </span>He was apparently one of the
first photojournalists to cover the war in northern Uganda, and was here when
it was not safe to be here.<span style="">&#160; </span>He’s covered
stories in Sudan, Turkey and pretty much any other conflict zone you can think
of.<span style="">&#160; </span>She relayed a lot of their
conversation to me, but the most interesting/unnerving revealed was that not
only does the Ugandan government own Bomah and most of the other mono hang outs
in Gulu, when the war was going on and people were moving into the “protected”
IDP camps, the government started buying land from those living in Gulu town,
so now that the area is safe, they don’t have their land to return to.<span style="">&#160; </span>Essentially, the government was “helping”
these people by giving them money for their land but now they’re stuck in the
camps.<span style="">&#160; </span>And further, with the government
owning all of these lands and businesses that international NGO’s rent or
frequent, why would they want there to be “absolute” peace in the region?<span style="">&#160; </span>Why would they want the peace talks to be
signed?<span style="">&#160; </span>If the peace talks are signed
most of the NGOs will pull out and the money from places like Bomah and the
Acholi Inn will stop flowing into the governments pockets. <span style="">&#160;</span>Just some food for thought.<span style="">&#160; </span>I, however, may have to stop taking meals at
Bomah, which is too bad because I like seeing Jacob.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So now I am sitting on the balcony at Hotel Kakanyero (not
owned by the government) listening to the sounds of the bats circling overhead
praying on mosquitoes (and they’re not doing a good enough job, let me tell
you) and the sounds of mid-eighties Madonna blaring from Havana Pub down the
road.<span style="">&#160; </span>Tomorrow promises to be another
full day and I’m excited for it!<span style="">&#160; </span>But now
I must work on my research proposal and get some rest!<span style="">&#160; </span>More later from the northern part!</p>

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        <title>Illegal Milk and Chicken Club Sandwiches</title>   
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<p class="MsoNormal">I would like to start this entry with a correction to my
last two.<span style="">&#160; </span>Now, I assure you, I know the
difference between a ferry and a fairy.<span style="">&#160;
</span>It may not have appeared that way in my last two entries, but I do!<span style="">&#160; </span>Thank you, Mom, for bringing that to my
attention.<span style="">&#160; </span>I have to say, I hope some of
you, along with my mother, envisioned me being carried from shore to shore by
Tinkerbell or Eddie Izzard (or someone like him) instead of a big, floating
mass with a motor.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I returned from Ssese unscathed and with enough time to rest
and do laundry before going to Gulu.<span style="">&#160; </span>My
plan was to leave for Gulu with Shaina on Monday morning.<span style="">&#160; </span>Sunday night around midnight I got violently
ill.<span style="">&#160; </span>Giardia.<span style="">&#160; </span>Again.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I have never been one to get sick often and Uganda is making me feel
like a weakling.<span style="">&#160; </span>This is the 5<sup>th</sup>
time I’ve been sick in a year. I don’t think Uganda is too dirty, I think
America is too clean.<span style="">&#160; </span>I refuse to use
hand sanitizer because I think it is very condescending to the culture, and I
don’t carry wet wipes in my purse (though I have developed a habit for stealing
toilet paper), and apparently my punishment is a lot of quality time with my
toilet.<span style="">&#160; </span>So…since March I have had
giardia 3 times, but it turns out that it has been the same giardia, I just did
not treat it properly.<span style="">&#160; </span>NOTE: travelers,
do not be lazy or cheap, just go to the doctor when you’re sick.<span style="">&#160; </span>Giardia cannot be cured with cipro, it can
merely be treated, but the parasite will remain in your small intestine and
every time it rears (no pun intended) it’s ugly head it becomes more and more
fierce.<span style="">&#160; </span>This is the problem I faced. BUT
now I am taking the proper medication and I’m doing much better, so much in
fact that I was able to finally head to Gulu yesterday (Wednesday).<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">My trip to Gulu started early on Wednesday morning.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was to meet Shaina at La Fontaine at
6:30am, and thus grabbed a boda from my house at 6:15am.<span style="">&#160; </span>We arrived at the bus park around 7 only to
sit there for an hour and a half before the bus filled and we were on our
way.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was absolutely exhausted because
the day before I adopted another kitten (I swear this is the last one) and it
is so young and tiny and requires a ton of care right now, so sleep wasn’t much
of an option for me or my house mate.<span style="">&#160; </span>I
sat on the bus awake for about fifteen minutes before passing out, not even to
wake up for our departure.<span style="">&#160; </span>In previous
posts I’ve written about this stretch of road that has somewhere around 80
speed bumps, one right after another.<span style="">&#160; </span>A
few hours into our journey I woke up not knowing where we were.<span style="">&#160; </span>I was trying to gage our progress based on the
speed bump factor, but according to the time I knew we should have passed speed
bump hell by now.<span style="">&#160; </span>I looked at Shaina,
half way thinking they had finished construction and the speed bumps were gone,
but she said, “oh no, they’re still there and we passed them”.<span style="">&#160; </span>How in the world did I not wake up for
that?!<span style="">&#160; </span>I felt my head, the side nearest
the window, and there was a massive, sore lump just above my temple indicating
that we had in fact gone through that section of road.<span style="">&#160; </span>Again, how did I not wake up?<span style="">&#160; </span>Shaina and I have deduced that I hit my head
on the first speed bump and it knocked me out so it was like I was still
sleeping.<span style="">&#160; </span>Hmmmmm.<span style="">&#160; </span>It still hurts.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After that I was in and out for a lot of the ride, until,
that is, we reached Kiryandongo.<span style="">&#160; </span>Now,
police checkpoints are normal in East Africa.<span style="">&#160;
</span>They pull large buses and cars over and take a quick scan of the
vehicles contents and then you’re on your way.<span style="">&#160;
</span>In Kiryandongo, however, we were not so lucky.<span style="">&#160; </span>The police on the main road instructed our
driver to pull in to the police post’s land, and I saw that there were two
other buses parked in front of us.<span style="">&#160; </span>The
passengers were all out sitting or standing under a mango tree, and then as
soon as we parked the passengers on my bus began offloading as well.<span style="">&#160; </span>Police officers were taking the large, yellow
jerry cans from the boot under the bus, emptying the contents onto the ground and
cutting the cans in half, lengthwise as the passengers stared in
confusion.<span style="">&#160; </span>After a few moments, people
started trailing off into the corn field to relieve themselves, and I had been
holding my bladder for some time (I had been unsuccessful in my pre-departure
dehydration) so decided to join.<span style="">&#160; </span>I gave
Shaina my bag and followed the stream of women into what had unofficially
become the ladies room in the corn field.<span style="">&#160;
</span>The men, lucky dogs, got to urinate by the two Ankole cattle grazing in
the field.<span style="">&#160; </span>I suppose the men didn’t need
the privacy provided by the large corn stalks.<span style="">&#160;
</span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I find the “perfect” spot, unfasten my belt and jeans,
realizing quickly why so many women here travel in long skirts, and squat
directly into a thorn bush.<span style="">&#160; </span>I let out a
whimper as three Ugandan women laugh at me and say “sorry” and my penis envy
returns.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After removing the small sticky thorns from my butt and
refastening my jeans and belt, I head back out to the open to meet Shaina and
tell her about my plight.<span style="">&#160; </span>The police are
still fussing over our jerry cans, so Shaina and I find a shaded area and find
a place to sit on the ground.<span style="">&#160; </span>The men’s
“toilet” was unoccupied so I decided to go over and see the Ankole cows up
close and get some photos.<span style="">&#160; </span>They are
magnificent animals.<span style="">&#160; </span>I snapped some
photos and went back to Shaina and we played a couple games of MASH to pass the
time.<span style="">&#160; </span>Everyone seemed to start heading
back to the bus, so like good little sheep, Shaina and I followed.<span style="">&#160; </span>We boarded the bus, found our seats and then
everyone on the bus began to freak out.<span style="">&#160;
</span>It seemed that the police had decided to take our driver to court!<span style="">&#160; </span>Everyone was speaking in Luganda so of course
Shaina and I had no idea what they were saying so we asked a guy sitting next
to us.<span style="">&#160; </span>He said that the jerry cans
contained milk and it is illegal to transport large quantities of milk.<span style="">&#160; </span>So now they wanted to take our driver to
court.<span style="">&#160; </span>Huh?<span style="">&#160; </span>Over milk?<span style="">&#160;
</span>This did not make sense.<span style="">&#160; </span>Then
something happened and I’m guessing the driver said that they shouldn’t take
him because he was not in charge of loading the bus, it was the conductor that
should be taken, so the conductor takes off running down the road, followed by
police carrying AK-47’s.<span style="">&#160; </span>This is where I
really started to doubt that it was milk in those jerry cans.<span style="">&#160; </span>The passengers offload again, but then the
bus engine started so we all got back on.<span style="">&#160;
</span>We backed out of the space and got back on the road and stopped again
when we reached the conductor who had taken off and been caught by the police.<span style="">&#160; </span>Everyone on the bus started screaming and
some got off, and I was too afraid to look, though it was clear that the
conductor was being beaten by the police.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Then we were on our way, business as usual.<span style="">&#160; </span>After that point, I clearly couldn’t sleep
anymore; plus, my favorite part of the journey wasn’t far ahead!<span style="">&#160; </span>Karuma Falls is the most beautiful part of
the River Nile that I have seen thus far.<span style="">&#160;
</span>If you jumped in at this point, you would die.<span style="">&#160; </span>And just after you cross the bridge over the
falls there are ALWAYS tons of baboons waiting on the other side.<span style="">&#160; </span>I love it!<span style="">&#160;
</span>I counted 11 baboons this time, just on my side of the bus, including a
newborn baby resting in her mother’s arms.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Beautiful.<span style="">&#160; </span>One of the baboons
decided to charge our bus while we were passing.<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m thinking these fierce animals are best
seen from inside a moving vessel, not up close and personal.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After Karuma Falls it’s only about an hour to the bus park
in Gulu town.<span style="">&#160; </span>We started passing the
larger IDP camps, including Bobi which One Mango Tree will be working in from
now on. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">We reached Gulu town and I told Shaina that we should wait
until most of the people had off loaded for our backpacks were tightly stuffed
in the overhead shelving (there was no room left in the boot due to the illegal
milk we were carrying).<span style="">&#160; </span>I struggled and
struggled to free my bag when some friendly Ugandan rasta came to help me.<span style="">&#160; </span>He told me that I needed to eat more posho
(maize-meal paste) and matooke (steamed or cooked green banana) so I would grow
strong.<span style="">&#160; </span>I showed him my muscles and
said, “I am strong, but unfortunately also short”.<span style="">&#160; </span>He got a kick out of this and gave me his
card.<span style="">&#160; </span>Shaina and I made it off the bus,
made our way out of the park and grabbed two bodas to Hotel Kakanyero.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">When we reached we were filthy, famished and exhausted.<span style="">&#160; </span>While Shaina showered I decided to call Lucy
and Pamela at GWED-G to tell them I had reached safely.<span style="">&#160; </span>Pamela is in Kampala for a meeting but she
told me to go to the office today to meet with Francis and Peter, the
coordinators for our One Mango Tree project, so I am about to do that.<span style="">&#160; </span>Lucy knew I had been sick so she told me to
take a shower, get some food and then rest and to come see her today too, so I
am also about to go do that. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After our showers we headed to Maq Foods for some
nourishment.<span style="">&#160; </span>Patrick, the owner, is in
Kampala taking care of his sick son, so I’m not sure if I will get to see him
on this journey, but I noticed right away that the place had changed.<span style="">&#160; </span>The first time I went to Maq Foods there was
no menu, you just had to either know or ask what they had.<span style="">&#160; </span>The last time I was there (in March of this
year) they had started making Indian food and had a very extensive Indian menu,
but the menu didn’t contain any of the non-Indian food offered.<span style="">&#160; </span>This time they have a new menu with tons of
new foods.<span style="">&#160; </span>Shaina and I were so hungry,
and everything looked so wonderful we could not decide.<span style="">&#160; </span>We ordered several things and decided to
share.<span style="">&#160; </span>Now, before yesterday, Maq Foods
was fantastic simply because it was one of the few places in Gulu town that
offered “western style” cuisine.<span style="">&#160; </span>The
quality wasn’t superb, but in Gulu your standards are slightly different so a
stale croissant can be the most delicious thing you’ve tasted in a long
time.<span style="">&#160; </span>The quality of their food has
improved tremendously, along with their menu!<span style="">&#160;
</span>We got an avocado stuffed with tuna (or as the menu says, tuner) salad
on a bed of mixed salad, veggie samosas, a fruit salad and a chicken club
sandwich.<span style="">&#160; </span>It was all absolutely amazing
(and not in the Gulu context)!<span style="">&#160; </span>It really
was fantastic.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">We left Maq Foods stuffed and happy, and even more exhausted
due to the food coma.<span style="">&#160; </span>We headed back to
Kakanyero, I promptly put on my pajamas and got into bed and started reading
The Independent (a new weekly “subversive” magazine here in Uganda).<span style="">&#160; </span>I wanted to check my email and write this blog,
but the energy was not there at all, and I was asleep by ten.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I have a busy day ahead of me which starts with going and
seeing Lucy and the tailors!<span style="">&#160; </span>More later
from the northern part!</p>

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<p class="MsoNormal">It is the American Independence Day and I am celebrating
with a relatively quiet vacation in Ssese Islands.<span style="">&#160; </span>Kalangala to be precise.<span style="">&#160; </span>I have to say I am missing bar-b-ques,
fireworks and my mom’s homemade ice cream, but the island has been quite
nice.<span style="">&#160; </span>This is our last day here (the
fairy back to Entebbe leaves at 8am tomorrow).</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">I was successful in leaving my computer at home and I have
to say it has been wonderful.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Meredith, Daniel and I arrived Wednesday evening.<span style="">&#160; </span>Daniel is staying at Hornbill camp a few
beaches down from ours (he stayed there the last time he was here) and Meredith
and I chose Mirembe (peace in Lugisu) Beach Resort.<span style="">&#160; </span>It’s a little more expensive than Hornbill,
but we have hot showers (which I have unfortunately been without for too long
at home), we don’t have bed bugs (which they do have at Hornbill) and the
owners are not psychotic (as they are at Hornbill).</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Our first night here the three of us hung out on Mirembe
beach for a while, had dinner and then traipsed over to Hornbill.<span style="">&#160; </span>It was dark and part of the journey was
through water because the brush between some of the beaches was too thick to walk
through.<span style="">&#160; </span>We sat at Hornbill’s little
outside bar for a few hours enduring the idiocy of the German owner.<span style="">&#160; </span>He was a total schmuck.<span style="">&#160; </span>In fact, if you looked up schmuck in the
Yiddish dictionary I am certain you would find his photograph.<span style="">&#160; </span>It’s too bad because aside from him and the
bed bugs, the camp looked kind of nice in the dark.<span style="">&#160; </span>They had a Great Dane named Zulu, a pet pig
(I forgot her name) and lots of various animal skulls hanging on trees around
the camp (Mom, you would love it!).<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">After a few hours I had had enough of this guy so Meredith
and I decided to grab our headlamps and make our way back to Mirembe, both
feeling like we needed some peace after time wasted with Captain
Obnoxious.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">We returned to our room excited to see that the power was on
(there is only power on the island from 7-11pm), and then it promptly went
out.<span style="">&#160; </span>For the next sixty seconds our room
was a flurry of curse words until we calmed down and got ready for bed with our
headlamps blazing.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal">The next morning I woke up at 8am to the sounds of various
birds and people working out in the yards, constructing stone paths, filling
caps with cement, chopping firewood and raking leaves.<span style="">&#160; </span>I got up and decided to go out and sit on the
porch and ready my book until Meredith woke up.<span style="">&#160;
</span>It was her birthday, I had to let her sleep!<span style="">&#160; </span>Plus, we were the only ones staying here and
the lake was so peaceful with the steam rising off the surface.<span style="">&#160; </span>The only sad thing was that the sky was so
overcast.<span style="">&#160; </span>We had grand plans of lying on
the beach all day reading and getting tan. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Meredith got out of bed around 10am and we went for
breakfast.<span style="">&#160; </span>It was delicious!<span style="">&#160; </span>Fresh passion fruit juice, spiced African
tea, scrambled eggs, toast and fresh fruit (all included in the price of the
room).<span style="">&#160; </span>I was <em style="">stuffed</em>.<span style="">&#160; </span>Meredith wanted to
go checkout the town on the island, but I was determined to stay away from
civilization, plus, there was a hammock which had been eyeing me since our
arrival.<span style="">&#160; </span>I decided to stay and read in
the hammock while she was gone.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Before leaving, I had to enlist Meredith’s help in actually
getting into the hammock.<span style="">&#160; </span>The thing was
placed several feet off the ground, and the movable three-step staircase next
to it was very wobbly.<span style="">&#160; </span>I looked at
Meredith and said, “I have a feeling I will still be here when you return” for
fear that I wouldn’t be able to get out on my own.<span style="">&#160; </span>The better my book got the more my bladder
filled and Meredith still wasn’t back. <span style="">&#160;</span>I
sat up, looking over the side of the hammock deciding to just jump.<span style="">&#160; </span>I made it safely, though admittedly
awkwardly, to the ground and made my way to the cabin to use the toilet.<span style="">&#160; </span>I knew there was no way to get back in that shaky
mess of knotted rope on my own, and the air had gotten warmer (though still
horribly overcast), so I decided to change into my swimming suit and go lay on
the beach and resume reading.<span style="">&#160; </span>Meredith
made it back as the sun was making a half-assed attempt at coming out and so
she joined me, followed by Daniel who had emerged from the brush between our two
beaches.<span style="">&#160; </span>We lay in a row reading and
waiting for the Entebbe fairy to arrive, carrying our friends Shaina and
Julius. </p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Meredith and I had requested a beach bar-b-que for her
birthday dinner, complete with pork spare ribs, chicken, and fresh caught tilapia
from Lake Victoria.<span style="">&#160; </span>The meal was
accompanied by pilou, mixed vegetables and Irish potatoes, fresh watermelon and
pineapple, and a birthday cake which I had asked Shaina to secretly bring.<span style="">&#160; </span>She was smart to also bring some other pastries
because the cakes you can buy in most supermarkets here are inedible.<span style="">&#160; </span>The pure sugar icing is rock hard, the cake
as dry as the contents of an urn, and they do not expire for one year.<span style="">&#160; </span>We couldn’t even stick candles in it without
them breaking.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">We finished our meal and took our drinks back down to the
campfire on the beach, playing games such as “never have I ever”.<span style="">&#160; </span>It totally took me back to high school,
specifically remembering a night where about 15 of us played at Frank Wiles’
apartment where Jason Spangler shocked us with a confession involving foot
apparel, but I digress.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">With the fire burning out, we decided to retire to me and
Shaina’s room to play the card game “speed”.<span style="">&#160;
</span>This also took me back to high school and I was so thankful that these
guys didn’t appear to be as violent as Adrienne.<span style="">&#160; </span>Our speed tournament turned into a cheesy song
sing along which was a drunken mess as we were all singing Kurt von Achen
style, humming most of the lyrics and then throwing in the few words we knew
here and there.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">It was 12:30 and we were all exhausted.<span style="">&#160; </span>Daniel had to make his way back to Hornbill
in the dark by himself.<span style="">&#160; </span>I offered him
our floor but he refused.<span style="">&#160; </span>He took my
headlamp and I asked him to text me when he reached, and about 20 minutes later
I received a text that said, “Mummy, I reached safely”.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So now it’s Friday.<span style="">&#160;
</span>Around 10am we all had breakfast, the same as the day before, and
everyone went for a bike ride on the island.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I decided to finish my book (which I have done) and write, and will soon
start working on my dissertation proposal whose due date keeps changing, then
disappearing and is not moved to a MUCH earlier date than anticipated.<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m a bit nervous, truth be told, because I
haven’t been able to get in touch with my advisor, and I leave for Gulu on
Monday morning.<span style="">&#160; </span>Hmmmmm.<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m sure all will be fine.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">This evening we’re going for a boat ride.<span style="">&#160; </span>I asked the manager if we could take the row
boat out on our own and she said yes but that it has a small leach but assured
us she would give us a bucket to scoop the water out.</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">So this is my Independence Day.<span style="">&#160; </span>The US Embassy had a celebration last weekend
but 1) it wasn’t the 4<sup>th</sup> of July, and 2) it was 20,000 shillings per
person to get in!<span style="">&#160; </span>So instead I went to
the German Embassy to watch football and enjoy free food and drinks.<span style="">&#160; </span>I’m thinking of switching my citizenship<span style="">&#160; </span>I’ve already got the name, now all I have to
do is learn more of the language (I only know numbers, greetings and curse
words).</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">Tonight is our last night.<span style="">&#160;
</span>I have to say I am a bit sad.<span style="">&#160; </span>It
is so quiet and peaceful here.<span style="">&#160; </span>You
cannot hear any automobiles or bodas, no blaring music, just the sounds of
various birds, the waves hitting the sand and wood being cut.<span style="">&#160; </span>It feels like home.<span style="">&#160; </span>There’s no dust and when I blow my nose it
doesn’t come out black because of diesel fumes, and I’m not running around the overcrowded
city trying, often unsuccessfully to get things done.<span style="">&#160; </span>In fact, I haven’t heard the word mzungu
since boarding the fairy at 2pm on Wednesday!</p>

<p class="MsoNormal">You can take the girl out of the country, but you cannot take
the country out of the girl.<span style="">&#160; </span></p>

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